I’ve worked for him for about 3 months. He has a small business and I do the packing and shipping for his company. When he was first training me I would meet him at his house and often there would be nobody there. He was always sending chocolate and stuff home with me and while I was there he would always offer me tea, espresso, juice, etc. After I got the idea of how to do things he progressed to just dropping things off at my house and coming over later in the evening to just check out all the work I did before mailing it. He still brought chocolates and stuff. Tonight he brought me a whole big box of French pastries. We are both married and we both know each others spouses/kids. He is Ukranian so I am figuring that it is just his background to be kind and he is a genuinely nice guy. He is a lot older than me and it weirds me out a little bit that he is always bringing me sweets. He has never made a move or anything at all, though. Am I being silly in thinking that he’s just a nice guy? Or am I just overanalyzing…
Oh I’m not complaining! He’s very nice! I just don’t want to accidentally give him the wrong idea by not seeing signs. I just thought I’d run things by someone who is a 3rd party and make sure I wasn’t crazy that he’s really just a nice guy.
Open Question: Do you think my boss kinda has a thing for me or is he just a really nice guy?
– March 8, 2010Posted in: