Open Question: does anyone know how keep lost spirits away for good?

i have gone through some real spiritual warfare…..thank god, in the name of jesus christ that my family and i survived. It all came out after my husband died….in hindsight, i know that it was there before. i survived 7 months…we sold the house to the park dist..no one should live there. they will be tearing down the house by the end of the winter. i will be writing a book..for therapy for myself and the kids and to help others…i couldnt tell many people because they would have said the widow has lost her mind…..but many people including priests witnessed the horror. there is so much that happened. i feel that when my husband passed i was the target….i was mourning my husband and so teribly sad for the kids. i have tried to put pieces together to figure out why me why me why me. what did i do. these are the facts…ilived backed into the forest preserve, my husband use to say that there was something wrong with the land…the 2 other neighbors (whoever was living there) always had misfortune and death. there were known indian burial grounds within 2 miles of that home. if you were to take a picture of my backyard …you could barely see anything through all the orbs ..literally hundreds. we renevated our litle farm house to 4400 sq ft..added an in law arrangement for my mother and built up and out…it was major major renovation. We bought all sorts of antiquesmy mother passed away there, the people that lived there before 40 yrs ago the lady died in that home. there was stress in the home before my husband died….also my kids and i can see and sense spirits more then ever….before i bought a house i took several pctures…prayed, made sure we felt good energy..and made sure that the house was bright and airy not too old and that no one died in the house. the new house is awesome but with all the trauma we went thru it would be only natural that we wonder what if something followed us or something knew comes here.. i can sit on my couch and just relax and then i can sense i am not alone..i was so tramatized before that i cant tell if it is good or not meaning good-angel but lost spirit even it is not harmful I dont want anything around me or my family ever again..once i sense a spirit, i will then see my cats looking at it or following it around the room. Once you have an experience you truly arent the same….you see life so much diff. it really took the fun out of just relaxing and falling asleep in your house with lights off…………comm ed makes a good $ from i give them alot of business. It isnt that i dont have faith in god it is that it has traumatized me and it will take time for me to heal. i have been told thru a christian prophetic that there is something that god needs me to do and also one of my kids……maybe evil knows that and that is why they came…..but what about the “lost spirits” i am totally sane but i do know that more than 1/2 of the people in mental institutions ended up there because of demon attacks……i lost my husband, they spiritually attacked for 7 months didnt sleep nights, sold everything in my house sold the house bought a house moved kids, animals…bought new furniture, homeschool my kids..(got a very fair price for my house and no one will ever live in that house again)..closed down my husbands business..etc it goes on. i know that the only reason i was able to do all and not end up in a mental hosp was because of god in the name of jesus.christ…. somuch more had happened…….but again with all that info do we know or will ever really know why these things happen to some and not others or is there something about my aura that attracts them…so it could be anything…anyone have any solid idea why me…you know i just want to live the rest of my days for my kids and praise god….i really would like to stop looking behind my shoulder i amvery protective of my kids and animals.so this makes life so much more dificult. i knowthat whenwe all die we will find out the answers but i do believe that god puts people in our lives to help … so anyone have any knowledge of this topic. i do know that demonsand lost spirits bother everybody everyday some people just dont notice…that was me for awhile. I do know that god wont leave you either…you see the more desperate i got, the more scared i got….i needed god more than ever and he wanted all of me for good not just part of me sometimes you would have to hear my whole story to appreciate what i am saying……..i thought i knew it all……………i have really grown as a human being….