Open Question: If you confided in someone and their friend were laughing at you would you think they exposed your business?

I got out of a abusive relationship and started going to a bar to get my mind of the guy I loved. I met a older guy who showed inertrest in me. He got me drinks and brought me to concerts. He started to say that he wanted to sleep with me. I told him that wouldnt happen because Im not in to heavy set guys.He also knew from the get go I was still in love with my ex I apologized but was nice about it. A girl around his age that tried talking to him the time he tried talking to me kind of had an attitude towards me. But after I told him I wasn’t interested we stopped haning out and I went to the bar by myself. The bartender started making moves on me. He said its dangerous for a girl to walk home by herself drunk and he’d drop me off If I fooled around with him. I refused so he felt kind of dumb. The older guy knew that I was still in love with my ex fiance and knew all the info. so he stopped talking to me and was a little bitter to the fact that he spent money on me and I didn’t do anything with him. I dont know if he exposed any of my embarressing secerts. When I went to the bar with my friend he text me out of the blue (the barteneder who thought I was a gold digger and slept with the older guy was working) I told my friend he probably told him I was there. When I went there alone the bar tender said that he didnt know my friend and said I had issues in so many words. But I read on my ex fiances myspace that he missed me and wanted to see me. I was talking about it and was pretty happy. I didnt go back to the bar for awhile. But since then I overdosed and ended up in the hospital. THe older guy I knew ended up texting me while I was in the hospital. I called him when I got out and told him what happened he seemed upset. SO I went to the bar and the girl who liked the older guy who spent money on me kept looking at me and laughing. Do you think he was talking **** about me? Her friends offered me a shot (drink) and were pretty nice to me. But I cant tell why she kept looking at me and laughing.When I asked her for a light she gave it to me with a smile and asked if I was doing ok. DO you think it was nothing o r do you think the bartender or my ‘friend’ was talking ****? I know it sounds like a lot of drama but please be honest and nice. Thanks.